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Tuesday, January 8, 2019
I get so tired of listening to my mom and dad argue, all the time.
I imagine that it has got to be very hard to hear your parents argue all of the time. It does not sound like you want to hear it. I appreciate that another person has provided you with options or ideas that you can consider to help distract you when it happens. It can be difficult to hear it especially when sometimes it can feel that grown ups should know how to communicate better. It may help to talk with a counselor or therapist to listen, empathize, and allow you to brainstorm with you ways to manage these situations and manage your own emotions during this tough time.
My suggestion is to try and block it out. I have experienced this same thing at my house and I find that if you just ignore it, your parents will resolve the argument eventually.
I know it sucks, things that help me are getting on my phone, reading a book, or doing something that distracts me. Stay positive!
ReplyDeleteI imagine that it has got to be very hard to hear your parents argue all of the time. It does not sound like you want to hear it. I appreciate that another person has provided you with options or ideas that you can consider to help distract you when it happens. It can be difficult to hear it especially when sometimes it can feel that grown ups should know how to communicate better. It may help to talk with a counselor or therapist to listen, empathize, and allow you to brainstorm with you ways to manage these situations and manage your own emotions during this tough time.
ReplyDeleteMy suggestion is to try and block it out. I have experienced this same thing at my house and I find that if you just ignore it, your parents will resolve the argument eventually.
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